I read your blogs often but I usually don't comment. I hope your writers block subsides soom b/c that would be a tragedy. NE-way, I think that sex after love is a possiblity, but only if you truly don't love the person anymore....and I am not talking about you not loving the person like you "used" to, but actually st8 up don't love the person anymore. It is a slippery-slope though b/c we are all creatures of habit, and easily fall back into comfortable situations.
Only if the two of you completely fell WAY out of love. Sex among two people who once loved one another, even after a break up and time, is still a risky game. I've done it but usually one or both of us ended up falling again. For me it tends to confuse things. All the reasons you two quit in the first place get cloudy and you start to think "maybe this shoulda worked" when really IT'S OVER.
Well i think there is still sex after love. there is, however, no love making after love. sex is before and after everything but making love is not before or after anything. it is only during those moments of comfort and trust one has with the love of their lives. but what am i saying, i dont know love. never experienced it so ill just call it sex. but the heck, i never had that either. oh well. i might just start calling it despretizm (if such )to feel wanted and important.
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If what you're asking is whether two people can have sex and not feel anything towards one another, yes.
I read your blogs often but I usually don't comment. I hope your writers block subsides soom b/c that would be a tragedy. NE-way, I think that sex after love is a possiblity, but only if you truly don't love the person anymore....and I am not talking about you not loving the person like you "used" to, but actually st8 up don't love the person anymore. It is a slippery-slope though b/c we are all creatures of habit, and easily fall back into comfortable situations.
old joke: what is your bf doing while u are making love to him?? answer: he is fucking you
so yes.. u can make love to him.. and then he can sex you up again
:)
Only if the two of you completely fell WAY out of love. Sex among two people who once loved one another, even after a break up and time, is still a risky game. I've done it but usually one or both of us ended up falling again. For me it tends to confuse things. All the reasons you two quit in the first place get cloudy and you start to think "maybe this shoulda worked" when really IT'S OVER.
Well i think there is still sex after love. there is, however, no love making after love. sex is before and after everything but making love is not before or after anything. it is only during those moments of comfort and trust one has with the love of their lives. but what am i saying, i dont know love. never experienced it so ill just call it sex. but the heck, i never had that either. oh well. i might just start calling it despretizm (if such )to feel wanted and important.
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